The Dragonfly Forest

They have been given names such as devil’s darning needle, ear sewer, horse stinger, skeeter hawk, and the snake’s servant. Actually, Dragonflies are beneficial, peaceful, and stunning. You are a Dragonfly if you are: ADD/ADHD, dyslexic, dysgraphic, Asperger’s, NLVD, autistic…

Thursday, September 24, 2015

Who to trust....

Information you need to understand and remember!  
Have you ever met a person or professional who thinks they know everything and has all the answers?  These kind of people don't admit that they could be wrong and never would admit a mistake.  Well, these are the people you should not trust because what they are presenting on the outside is just a cover.  

~No one is perfect!  

~~Everyone has problems and obstacles in their lives. 

~~~Learning is challenging and the lessons we learn from the most challenging experiences and events are the ones that are the most beneficial.  

~~~~ If someone tells you they have everything figured out than do not trust them because they are either fooling themselves or they are fooling you.  

There are people out there that want you to believe they have all the right answers but that isn't possible.  They may have some answers that are correct but they cannot know everything. They may be experts about some things but they cannot be experts on everything.  An authentic person will be honest that they don't know everything but they are willing to peruse the answers.  An authentic person will admit mistakes, make apologies, and make amends.  

So don't blindly just believe and trust others-- do your own research, walk your own path, and trust your own instincts. 

You are the expert on your life, your problems, your children, your family, your experiences.... 

Never let someone tell you that you don't know what you know or know what you are feeling, talking about, or experiencing.  

So stay strong no matter what you are battling - doctors & health care practitioners for a medical/health problem;  a school district regarding your child's education; or a co-worker/family/friend who acts better than you or attacks your integrity.  

Finally, this is YOUR Hero's journey and you must be the one in the lead!